So Melissa got a call from daycare this afternoon, asking her to come pick Sylvie up. She has a fever of 101 and a really bad diaper rash that they thought could be a yeast infection. Melissa got her and brought her to the doctor, where she was seen immediately (one of the many benefits of living in a small town). Turns out she has an ear infection. This, her doctor believes, is the cause not only of her fever, but also the cold symptoms she's had for about a week now - including her hacking cough and runny nose. He said we should see those clearing up quickly. He also thinks she might have a slight touch of some sort of stomach bug, and suggested we try her on soy formula for a few days to try and get her stools firmed up. He does not think the rash is an infection, but gave Melissa a prescription for a cream just in case. Apparently antibiotics increase the risk of infant yeast infection, so it can't hurt to be using the preventative cream anyhow.
The thing that's killing me about this is that she's clearly been uncomfortable for at least a week with this, but she's such a good kid that we didn't think we needed to take her to the doctor! She's been a
little bit fussier recently, but not really. We figured her occasional tantrums were because of her cold. She's still almost always in a good mood, sleeping through the night, etc. We didn't want to become "those parents" who rush to the doctor at each little sniffle or cough. That reticence, combined with her pleasant disposition, in this case probably caused us to wait longer than we should have. I guess this is my first dose parental guilt - I suppose I'd better get used to it!
I hope the doctor is right and the cough really is part of the ear infection, because it's gotten pretty bad and was starting to worry me quite a bit. It would be nice if the antibiotic took care of that. Of course the *!#%()!*#% internet has 101 reasons not to give an infant amoxicillin - I guess there was some study a few years ago suggesting infant use of amoxicillin could be tied to a fluoride deficiency in permanent teeth later in life. But I've already learned that when it comes to health care for children, no matter what you do there's something on the internet that says you're a bad parent for doing it. So I guess we'll just go with our doctors.
Anyhow, the important thing is that so far as Sylvie knows, this was just a fun - though abbreviated - day at day care, where we understand she really enjoyed the Music Man's performance this morning.
Will update when anything changes.